Men are infamous for not expressing their emotions effectively.
A massive cause for that’s they have been by no means taught the right way to do it as boys. No one tells them, “You’re gonna feel anger and grief, and here’s how you handle those emotions.” When boys get upset and shove their sister or backtalk their trainer, their conduct will get scolded, however nobody teaches them the right way to harness their emotion and channel it in optimistic methods.
I as soon as heard knowledgeable soccer participant say that he struggled to handle his feelings as a result of he was anticipated to be aggressive in his job every day however then change it off earlier than he returned residence every night time. That’s a problem each man faces, irrespective of his occupation. The aggression that fuels his success within the enterprise world additionally stirs up battle at residence along with his spouse and children.
True strength will not be expressed by way of bodily energy, however by way of inside management. The reply for male aggression will not be for males to grow to be passive, to hunt security as a substitute of threat, or to face in opposition to nothing whereas their households, or their tradition, come underneath assault. The reply is for males to develop an emotional vocabulary that helps them determine and channel their emotions in constructive ways in which construct life up as a substitute of tearing it down.
Healthy houses will not be created by weak males however by males with sturdy character who use their strength to raise up the folks round them.